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		<title>Giving Thanks in Hard Times</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 21:12:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mandy Lou Stark</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It’s Thanksgiving Eve. Most are preparing for festive gatherings with family and friends, wrapped up a rush of finishing a never-ending list of things we must accomplish in order to enjoy a day of peace, quiet and lots and lots of eating. While we are preoccupied with our to-dos, the reason for the season sometimes [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It’s Thanksgiving Eve. Most are preparing for festive gatherings with family and friends, wrapped up a rush of finishing a never-ending list of things we must accomplish in order to enjoy a day of peace, quiet and lots and lots of eating.</p>
<p>While we are preoccupied with our to-dos, the reason for the season sometimes slips out of our minds.</p>
<p>Feeling and expressing gratitude and goodwill are what Thanksgiving is meant to be.</p>
<p>For some, though, it may not be easy to be grateful. The United States is facing some of the most economically difficult times in history. The future is uncertain.  Life is a little scary.</p>
<p>In the midst of the discord in our country, friends I know are suffering through family crises, personal loss, financial hardships and extreme uncertainty.</p>
<p>I can’t imagine how hard it would be to try to find joy in a holiday that almost makes us feel guilty if we don’t want to give thanks because we’re wondering what there is to say thanks about.</p>
<p>To make matters worse, “Black Friday” – the day after Thanksgiving that kicks off the shopping season and entices shoppers with deep discounts and sales − has now even started much earlier than Friday.</p>
<p>Retailers such as Wal-Mart are opening their doors as early as 9:00 p.m. Thursday night, meaning Americans don’t even get one full day of freedom from thinking about spending money they may not even have, which emphasizes even more whey people are in despair.</p>
<p>A vicious cycle of circumstances and events just continue to hold people down and prohibit them from even enjoying one designated day a year to give thanks and praise.</p>
<p>Hopefully, though, no matter where you are, what your situation and how you’re feeling that you will find at least one thing for which to be thankful. If you’re reading this, you’re alive and that is definitely one thing for which to be thankful. Hopefully, if you think about it even more, your list will grow and multiply.</p>
<p>Looking back on the last many years, thinking of all of the varied Thanksgiving days I’ve lived, I have a hard time remembering the specifics. I can’t remember what I was going through, or what I was sad, unsettled or upset about.</p>
<p>All I remember about my last many Thanksgivings is the joy and love I felt. And I remember being thankful. Maybe it was because I was supposed to be or maybe because I truly was, but that feeling can stay with you, if you want it and if you let it. Obviously, no matter what I was going through, it has resolved itself.</p>
<p> I hope for you to let go of any hardships and the sorrow you’re experiencing and instead of letting it overcome you, to just be thankful. You may be surprised that next year when you look back, you&#8217;ll barely remember the troubles you were having, but the courage you had to say thanks anyway.</p>
<p> “Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life.  It turns what we have into enough, and more.  It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity.  It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend.  Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today and creates a vision for tomorrow.&#8221;  ~Melody Beattie</p>
&gt;&lt;((&quot;&gt; Mandy Stark
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<i> Mandy is a &gt;&lt;((&quot;&gt; Friend of Catch Your Limit, a marketing firm with offices in Tallahassee, Florida and Richmond, Virginia. To contact Mandy email her at misslou20@aol.com or to learn more about Catch Your Limit, visit www.catchyourlimit.com. ]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Halloween &amp; Year End Planning  &#8211; Anything Worth Doing is Worth Doing Right</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Oct 2011 22:35:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melissa Laughon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[With just days before the trick-or-treaters arrive, I’m still not sure of what I want to be for Halloween.  And, when I wait to the last minute (which is usually), I begin to talk myself out of the whole thing.  My conversation with myself today went a little like this: Melissa (the good):  Tonight’s the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>With just days before the trick-or-treaters arrive, I’m still not sure of what I want to be for Halloween.  And, when I wait to the last minute (which is usually), I begin to talk myself out of the whole thing.  My conversation with myself today went a little like this:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 60px;">Melissa (the good):  Tonight’s the night – make a choice and start putting your costume together</p>
<p style="padding-left: 60px;">Melissa (the bad): What’s the point?  In a few days, the cobwebs will be swept away and skeletons will be put back in their closet.  The costumed kids will have their photos spread all over creation digitally.  We’ll eat the last of the candy corn and remember why we don’t really miss it the other 11 months out of the year.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 60px;">Melissa (the good):  But, it’s fun and everyone loves it and it’s my favorite time of year!  Always has been!</p>
<p style="padding-left: 60px;">Melissa (the bad): This is really not that much of a priority. I’m way too busy with more important things.  No need to waste time and energy.  For the rest of the year, our calendars will be overbooked, we’ll be overstuffed &#8211; and if you’re like me – you’ll be over 2011!</p>
<p>So, there you go.  I’m at war with myself over Halloween.  But, as I was having this conversation (with myself), I realized that I’ve been doing the same damn thing with the whole idea of end-of-year planning.  It’s this time of year when we’re busiest facilitating strategic planning sessions and year-end retreats for our clients.  It’s also when we need to be practicing what we preach and doing these basics for ourselves.  So, we’re looking at our schedules and trying to find the time to work “on” our organization vs. being caught up “in” the day to day trenches.  And, here’s what’s going on in my head.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 60px;">Melissa (the good): This time of year is so exciting.  So much opportunity.  So many ideas.  So fun!</p>
<p style="padding-left: 60px;">Melissa (the bad) is thinking:  “we don’t have time”, “there’s no point”, “it can wait”, “now is just not the right time”.  <em>But, I don’t say it out loud because these are the words that I loathe for our clients to say. </em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 60px;">Melissa (the good):  The planning process may be chaotic and time consuming, but the output is well worth it.</p>
<p>So, in my blender of a brain, I’m thinking of the planning that I need to do here at work and I’m thinking that I need a costume.   And, here’s what my brain tells me:</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter" title="Samantha" src="http://media.comicvine.com/uploads/6/61105/1799414-samantha_stevens_bewitched_l_super.jpg" alt="" width="400" height="300" /><br />
Samantha from Bewitched would be nice. With a wiggle of my nose, everyone here in &gt;&lt;((“&gt;ville would clearly understand and be able to articulate our vision and our plan to get there.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter" title="Dorothy" src="http://windowontheprairie.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/Judy-Garland-as-Dorothy.jpg" alt="" width="276" height="263" /></p>
<p>Dorothy is always a great choice.  Click Click Click and repeat three times “catch your limit” and we won’t need to be at the table having positive conflict around the sticky issues that will hold us back if they go unresolved.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter" title="Fairy Godmother" src="http://people.southwestern.edu/~bednarb/su_netWorks/projects/ramos/cinderellagodm.jpg" alt="" width="351" height="242" /></p>
<p>Or, perhaps the Fairy Godmother is what these times call for.  Just imagine, a wave of my magic wand would be all it took to understand our roles and responsibilities moving forward.</p>
<p>I wish it worked that way!</p>
<p>But, I know (and you know) that anything worth doing is worth doing right!  And, whether it’s getting into the holiday spirit or developing your plan for next year at work, doing it right means investing of yourself.</p>
<p>Planning  takes hard work, a lot of heart and an amazing amount of prep and teamwork.  And, courage … the courage to keep going, the courage to commit and say that I’m going to give it MY ALL another day, another week, another month, another year even when I don’t know what tomorrow holds … even when there are no guarantees because I believe in what I’m doing.</p>
<p>If this time of year doesn’t make you stop and think hard about your journey &#8230;  if it all seems really easy … then stop to ask yourself if you’re just going through the motions … that could be the spookiest proposition of them all.</p>
<p>Ok &#8230; first steps first &#8211; what am I going to be for Halloween?</p>
<p>><(("> Melissa Laughon</p>
<p><em>Melissa is a ><(("> Team Member at Catch Your Limit, a management consulting firm with offices in Tallahassee, Florida and Richmond, Virginia. To learn more, visit <a href="http://www.catchyourlimit.com">www.catchyourlimit.com</a>.</em></p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>The Power of Talking &#8211; Association Executive Roundtable Recap</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Oct 2011 21:48:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melissa Laughon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Tom Laughon &#38; Melissa Laughon Are we up or are we down? Are we heading towards success or irrelevancy?  Is the recession over or just about to begin again?  Are we growing or shrinking? Our sense is that the answer depends on who you are talking to.  And, we were particularly interested in taking [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/4ASSOC-Logo.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3672" title="4ASSOC Logo" src="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/4ASSOC-Logo.jpg" alt="" width="286" height="172" /></a>By Tom Laughon &amp; Melissa Laughon</p>
<p>Are we up or are we down? Are we heading towards success or irrelevancy?  Is the recession over or just about to begin again?  Are we growing or shrinking?</p>
<p>Our sense is that the answer depends on who you are talking to.  And, we were particularly interested in taking a pulse with associations.  When the opportunity arose for Tom Laughon, Catch Your Limit’s Founder/CEO, to be the VIP guest at an executive roundtable on September 22, 2011 sponsored by the Colorado Society of Association Executives in Denver, we leapt at it.  The roundtable was such a meaningful experience; we decided to keep the conversation going.  The very next week, we held a similar roundtable in Richmond with association executives.  We posed a variety of questions including:</p>
<ul>
<li>We’re all trying to do more with less.  How are you staying focused, energized and enthusiastic?  What are you doing/what could we do to combat fatigue in ourselves and our organizations?</li>
<li>In these challenging economic times, how do we balance needing to be strategic, innovative leaders for our categories (+ members + staff) while at the same needing job security?</li>
<li>Looking into 2012 … what behaviors/trends do you expect to see with your members that you’re taking notice of? How are you (+ your association) responding?</li>
<li>Over the past few years …
<ul>
<li>Where have you cut resources (time, energy, $) and found that it paid off in a positive way? How are you (+ your association) responding?</li>
<li>Where have you cut resources (time, energy, $) and found that it was costly and detrimental?  How are you (+ your association) responding?</li>
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</li>
</ul>
<p>The questions were powerful and they served their purpose … they got folks talking.  But, it was what was shared during the conversations that left us laughing, crying, hoping and cursing … the power of peers coming together to share their experiences was most impactful.</p>
<p>From the roundtables in Denver and Richmond, as well as the conversations that we’re having with association executives around the nation, we’ve listed a few of our observations.  Please note that the association executives that we’ve talked with and that we work with are a small sample size and this summary is not a research report.  Also, insights may be slightly skewed as we surround ourselves with executives that are setting standards for best practices and are leading the industry in various ways.</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Observation 1: You’re Up For the Challenge</span></strong><br />
If someone thought that you’d back down from a challenge without a fight, they were dead wrong. There may have been an initial “shock and awe” aspect to the impacts the recession and the economy were having on you and your members, but you’ve bounced back as leaders.  You’re growing as leaders as you guide your board, staff and members during tumultuous times.  You’re making much needed changes that should prove to be beneficial, although they have taken a toll in the short run. You’re asking hard questions, you’re problem solving  and you’re more than willing to roll up your sleeves and do what it takes to be successful.</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Observation 2: You Have Needs, Too</span></strong><br />
As the times have taken their toll on your members, you’ve been there to empathize, be supportive and offer to help in a variety of ways.  You’ve seen the categories that you represent from a unique perspective.  Some of you have had to say good-bye and mourn long time industry players that you could never have imagined closing their doors.  Or, perhaps you’ve seen your industry shrink as mergers and acquisitions continue. Some of you have had to educate new start-ups on the importance of an association that advocates on your behalf.  Others have seen impressive growth and have been scurrying around to meet increasing needs.  Whatever the situation, you are there.  You are there caring for your members and your category.  But, you haven’t always cared for yourself.  It’s critical that you find time to tend to the care and well being of you so that you can continue to serve others.  Talking with other association peers can be a positive way to stay focused and energized.</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Observation 3: A Roadmap Is Difficult To Come By</span></strong><br />
Dorothy said it best, “Toto, I’ve a feeling we’re not in Kansas anymore.”  You are doing your part to assess the new landscape and identify opportunities but things are changing quickly.  You’re trying to move things along but you recognize that the structure you’ve operated in for years can be slow and clunky and not conducive to creativity and innovation.  You’re working with your volunteer leaders to change mindsets and skillsets so that you’ll be open to new ideas and in a position to act on them. You’ve asked your volunteer leaders for special sessions or to move up dates so that you can get their hearts and brains in the game and come up with the best possible roadmap given what you know today and what scenarios might occur in the future.</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Observation 4: Money matters. Performance Counts. Time is the Enemy.</span></strong><br />
This mantra is posted in everyone’s office at Catch Your Limit.  But, we’re certain that you’ve got this as a tattoo!  You get that money matters, especially to your boards.  You’re having debates over whether to cut costs or invest new directions.  This is especially tricky and sensitive when you’re dealing with downturns and reserves.  You’re having to earn your keep and your staff is doing more than ever before with less.  And, with unrelenting meeting schedules, perhaps the resource you covet the most is time &#8230; time to be strategic, time to innovate, time to lead.</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Observation 5: Work smarter, Not Harder</span></strong><br />
Your association is changing.  You’re coming up with new plans and are trying new things.  You have less resources.  In this environment, a “stop doing” list is crucial.  And, although you’ve been through lots of change in recent years, you must never underestimate how difficult change can be and how powerful “but we’ve always done it that way” can be.  Where does your focus need to be? What is getting in the way?  What programs have little to no ROI? The time is right to examine what you need to stop investing resources (time, $ and energy) in.  Also, be sure that you’re leveraging your staff, board and committees to the fullest.  Where is the highest and best use of your time?</p>
<p><strong>Join the conversation.</strong><br />
Use the questions to generate discussions for your organization.  Share what you learn/observe with us.</p>
<p>Melissa Laughon<br />
<a href="mailto:tom@catchyourlimit.com">melissa@catchyourlimit.com</a><br />
804-767-1702</p>
<p>><(("> Melissa Laughon</p>
<p><em>Melissa is a ><(("> Team Member at Catch Your Limit, a management consulting firm with offices in Tallahassee, Florida and Richmond, Virginia. To learn more, visit <a href="http://www.catchyourlimit.com">www.catchyourlimit.com</a>.</em></p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Post2Post Virtual Book Tour &#8211; An Interview with Kevin Maney, Co-Author of The Two-Second Advantage</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 11:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melissa Laughon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Welcome! to the Post2Post Virtual Blog tour featuring Melissa Laughon&#8217;s interview with Kevin Maney, co-author of  The Two-Second Advantage: How We Succeed by Anticipating the Future—Just Enough. A few months ago, I agreed to interview Kevin Maney as part of Idea Sandbox&#8217;s Post 2Post Virtual Book Tour (which we think is great). A few days [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #808080;"><strong>Welcome!</strong> to the Post2Post Virtual Blog tour featuring Melissa Laughon&#8217;s interview with Kevin Maney, co-author of  <strong><em>The Two-Second Advantage: How We Succeed by Anticipating the Future—Just Enough.</em></strong></span></p>
<p>A few months ago, I agreed to interview Kevin Maney as part of Idea Sandbox&#8217;s <a href="http://www.idea-sandbox.com/post2post-background/">Post 2Post Virtual Book Tour</a> (which we think is great).</p>
<p>A few days after committing to the project, <em>The Two-Second Advantage</em> arrived at the office and made its way to my desk (which is to say that this book landed in the Bermuda Triangle).   For days it sat on my desk &#8211; not too close to interfere with the deadlines at hand, but not too far as to get out of my stream of consciousness.  And, on my desk, this interesting book stayed untouched for days &#8211; ok weeks.</p>
<p>I had not even opened the book and knew very little about it, but each time I glanced at this book, it told stories to me every day &#8230; stories of all of the &#8220;one more things&#8221; I&#8217;ve elected to read, to write, to do, to cram into an already busy schedule and all of the book ideas and blogs and articles and interviews and research papers of my very own that have gone unwritten.  After a few weeks of being tortured by the book (and the impending interview deadline), I was faced with a decision.  I could write to Idea Sandbox and share with them the paranormal nature of my desk and how the book had disappeared under mysterious circumstances.  Or, I could follow through with my commitment and pick up the book, open the book, read the book and interview Kevin.</p>
<p>So, I did what I normally do in these situations, I asked my 8ball &#8211; should I follow through and interview Kevin?  And, it said, &#8220;better not tell you now.&#8221;  Great.  Maybe YouTube could help me craft my excuses involving extraterrestrials.  Yes, for the record, YouTube can help with that.  And, it can also tell you a little about this book - <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i3XSR6turQs">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i3XSR6turQs</a>.</p>
<div class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 458px"><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i3XSR6turQs"><img class="  " title="Book Cover" src="http://www.vsapartners.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/2_sec_advantage1-640x426.jpg" alt="" width="448" height="299" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Click on book cover to see book trailer</p></div>
<div id="attachment_3637" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 189px"><a href="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/P2P1.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-3637" title="P2P" src="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/P2P1-179x300.jpg" alt="" width="179" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">True Story</p></div>
<p>And, after watching the trailer, I thought how silly of me to have put this off for so long!  P2P always features great books and this was one that I knew I&#8217;d be fascinated by!</p>
<p>So, on that note, me, my book and I, walked down the street to a little Thai restaurant and got to know each other.  After just a few chapters, I was excited to talk with Kevin and started counting down the days until our interview.</p>
<p>And, just in case you&#8217;re a little like me and have a short attention span and like to skip around a bit, we&#8217;ve edited the interview down into shorter segments that you can take a self-guided tour of .  The audio links are included below.</p>
<p><strong>I highly recommend this book.  </strong>The concepts of how human brainpower and a new evolution of IT will work together in a predictive manner to help us succeed in the future is as useful as it is fascinating.  The stories that are shared as examples are captivating and inspiring.  And, the bottom line is that this is a change in mindset and we need to understand it and embrace it or we&#8217;ll be left in the dust &#8230; you know &#8230; that &#8220;change or die&#8221; stuff people have been talking about.</p>
<ul>
<li>Kevin Maney on how having a two-second advantage can make the world a better place<br />
<a href="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/Making-the-World-a-Better-Place.mp3">Making the World a Better Place<br />
</a></li>
<li>Kevin Maney on how the need for a two-second advantage will impact recruiting in the future<br />
<a href="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/Recruiting-Talent.mp3">Recruiting Talent</a></li>
<li>Kevin Maney on the relevancy of strategic planning and scenario planning in the future<br />
<a href="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/Strategizing.mp3">Strategizing</a></li>
<li>Kevin Maney on our education system and the two-second advantage<br />
<a href="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/Education.mp3">Education<br />
</a></li>
<li>Kevin Maney on more data vs. better answers<br />
<a href="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/Data-vs-Answers.mp3">Data vs Answers<br />
</a></li>
<li>Kevin Maney on the ones to watch re: the two-second advantage<br />
<a href="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/The-Ones-to-Watch.mp3">The Ones to Watch<br />
</a></li>
<li>Kevin Maney on how having a two-second advantage is about more than technology, it requires a cultural change<br />
<a href="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/A-Cultural-Change.mp3">A Cultural Change</a></li>
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<p><strong>Thanks Idea Sandbox and Kevin Maney! To follow the tour &#8211; check out the previous stop  <a href="http://collaborativeinnovation.org/2011/10/can-predictive-technology-solve-crowdsourcing/">http://collaborativeinnovation.org/2011/10/can-predictive-technology-solve-crowdsourcing/</a>  and the next stop <a href="http://innovationtools.com/">http://innovationtools.com/</a>.</strong></p>
<p>><(("> Melissa Laughon</p>
<p><em>Melissa is a ><(("> Team Member at Catch Your Limit, a management consulting firm with offices in Tallahassee, Florida and Richmond, Virginia. To learn more, visit <a href="http://www.catchyourlimit.com">www.catchyourlimit.com</a>.</em></p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>A Really Big Rant: E-mail Courtesy</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Oct 2011 00:18:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mandy Lou Stark</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was in the mood to write a sweet blog today about our “hidden talents” and how to hone in on what we’re good at and not worry so much about what we’re not good at. However, a pet peeve of mine has been festering, and I reached my boiling point today. I’m going to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/E_mail.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-3633" src="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/E_mail-267x300.jpg" alt="" width="160" height="180" /></a>I was in the mood to write a sweet blog today about our “hidden talents” and how to hone in on what we’re good at and not worry so much about what we’re not good at.</p>
<p>However, a pet peeve of mine has been festering, and I reached my boiling point today. I’m going to let it out and save my fluffy blog for another time.</p>
<p>It is normal to have pet peeves in business such as: “I hate when my cubicle neighbor routinely cuts his or her toenails on work time,” “my boss still calls twitter ‘tweeter,’” and “I was almost run over by my maniacal coworker in the parking garage – again.”</p>
<p>Everybody is entitled to be annoyed by things in the office considering we spend a huge portion of our lives there.</p>
<p>But my concern is one that very few folks in business do not seem to have a grasp on – the e-mail carbon copy function.</p>
<p>Electronic mail actually predates the inception of the Internet and was in use by the early 1970s. Most people have been using e-mail for business and personal matters since the mid 1990s, meaning an average person could have sent possibly hundreds of thousands of e-mails over the years. That’s a long time to catch on to some basic principles of what to do and what not to do when it comes to e-mail.</p>
<p>I’ll get to the point. Carbon copying (abbreviated as cc or c.c.) in an e-mail goes to two or more people whom the author wants to publicly include in a message. Usually the main person you’re writing to is listed in the “to” category and secondary recipients are listed in the “cc” category. Ok, that’s pretty simple.</p>
<p>Carbon copying others makes sense when writing to an entire department, a team or a family – groups of people who logically would be included in the message.</p>
<p>Here’s where carbon copying can go awry:</p>
<p>Coworkers use e-mail to ask each other questions, share ideas and problem solve. In these cases, the e-mails tend to be informal in nature and not meant to be seen by an outside party – especially a boss or supervisor. There is usually a big difference between the types of e-mails that are sent among the ranks and that are sent to executives.</p>
<p>If you are bouncing ideas off your coworker, don’t start to carbon copy the boss mid-conversation – especially without letting the other person know. From my experience, higher ups prefer to see the final result and unless they specifically ask to be included in the planning phases of a project, don’t bore them with things they probably don&#8217;t want to know.</p>
<p>And here’s something else to think about – this could be perceived as a violation of trust and privacy. There’s times when I wonder if people use e-mail carbon copying as a weapon to make other people look silly or expose an error or a mistake to a boss or another person.</p>
<p>If this did happen to me, I know my cheeks would turn red as I imagined my boss opening the e-mail wondering why they were included in such mundane details and why the person felt it necessary to get them involved. I&#8217;d feel like I just got told on to my teacher.</p>
<p>Another example of a huge no-no in my book is using carbon copying for personal gain. As innocent as this sounds, it is not a way to make brownie points. I know of somebody who was doing some research about services and sent out a few feeler e-mails to get information. One of the e-mails that person received back included not only the information they requested, but a strategically placed carbon copy to a VIP.</p>
<p>Think of an e-mail almost like a phone call. If your coworker asked you a quick question, would you ask them to wait a second while you conferenced in their boss? If you called a vendor, would you think it was strange if they wanted you to put the director of the company on the line too? What a way to make somebody feel insignificant or incompetent!</p>
<p>I know we all make mistakes and clearly think what we’re doing at any given moment is appropriate and the right thing to do. E-mail is quick and dirty, but it requires more than just being able to hit send. It takes a few minutes of strategizing to really determine what you’re saying and to whom you’re saying it.</p>
<p>For such an easy-to-come by and practically free tool – e-mail is more powerful than we could ever imagine in relaying our image, our message our motives and our credibility.</p>
<p>“There are four ways, and only four ways, in which we have contact with the world. We are evaluated and classified by these four contacts: what we do, how we look, what we say, and how we say it.”~ Dale Carnegie (1888-1955)</p>
&gt;&lt;((&quot;&gt; Mandy Stark
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Aug 2011 14:18:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leighton</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Well, sadly, this is my last week interning at Catch Your Limit Consulting. L It’s about time for me to return further south to finish my senior year at the University of Alabama! I truly have had a wonderful experience here at Catch Your Limit and in Richmond, VA. Tom and Melissa have taught me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, sadly, this is my last week interning at Catch Your Limit Consulting. L It’s about time for me to return further south to finish my senior year at the University of Alabama! I truly have had a wonderful experience here at Catch Your Limit and in Richmond, VA.</p>
<p>Tom and Melissa have taught me so much and I really value everything I have learned from them. Some of the valuable concepts they have taught me include, first, it’s okay to be a little uncomfortable. Tom and Melissa are both so creative, probably two of the most creative people I have ever met.  In fact, with my projects they really gave me NO boundaries! As a college student, I am very used to having guidelines and boundaries in almost everything I do. They really just threw me out there and said, “Okay Leighton, go do it! Go be creative!” At first that was a little intimidating. However, I learned that, not giving too many boundaries really forces one to be stretched creatively like me!</p>
<p>Second, I learned the value of always asking really good open-ended questions. Whether, you are interviewing someone, being interviewed, or even trying to sell a client, being prepared with your facts and always asking good questions that generate a positive conversation flow is extremely important. I would listen in on Melissa as she was on the phone, or speaking with clients and she does this so well! She really pays attention and is so knowledgeable about what she is saying and asking. I was personally inspired!</p>
<p>Finally, Tom and Melissa have really shown me to always have fun, even at work! Work should not be a place that you dread going everyday, it should be exciting and it should push you to be a better person! I can’t think of two more happy and fun people to work with than Tom and Melissa. Even though they have completely different personalities, they each brought the fun and excitement into the office everyday! Tom always would come in singing, Melissa always has a big smile on her face, and the Catch Your Limit office itself is just a fun and exciting place everyday!</p>
<p>All in all, I have had a wonderful experience here this summer. I feel like I have really grown individually, become more independent, more sure of what I want to do after college, and I have especially realized what some of my life goals are and what kind of person I want to be!</p>
<p>I would encourage everyone to stop by the Catch Your Limit office in Richmond and meet Tom and Melissa, so you can have the same wonderful experience that I have had this summer!</p>
<p>I have gone fishin’ for the rest of the summer, but I’ll be back soon!</p>
<p>&gt;&lt;((“&gt;</p>
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		<title>The Art of Creative Communication</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Aug 2011 15:09:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leighton</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[“The most important thing in communication is to hear the words that aren’t being said,” Peter Drucker. Whether you are in a foreign country, in the work world, or just simply trying to communicate with your friends and family, communication can be a hard concept at times. Two summers ago,  I really learned the value [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“The most important thing in communication is to hear the words that aren’t being said,” Peter Drucker.</p>
<p>Whether you are in a foreign country, in the work world, or just simply trying to communicate with your friends and family, communication can be a hard concept at times.</p>
<p>Two summers ago,  I really learned the value and importance of effective communication when I had the opportunity to travel to China. My purpose for going over there was for a project, to meet the local kids, hang out with them and learn more about China, and their culture.</p>
<p>Upon my arrival in China, I immediately became intimidated.  It was the very first time I had arrived in a new place and did not understand or recognize one spoken or written word.  I was completely illiterate, and that got to be very uncomfortable at times.</p>
<p>Not knowing a single word of Chinese, I wondered how I was supposed to communicate with my peers if I couldn’t even say hi.  Thankfully, we had a translator with us during the initial phase of our trip. She helped a little by giving us a phrase book.  However, when we went into the schools, we were completely on our own!</p>
<p>My first day, I literally walked all over that campus,  going up to Chinese students, asking them if they spoke English and if they wanted to hang out and be my friend. Some kids gave me funny looks and clearly didn’t understand a single word I said. Others just swarmed me, as if I were a celebrity, and took what felt like thousands of pictures with me. Finally, I met some students that knew enough English to comprehend what I was saying. On the first day, I miraculously formed a little group of friends, and we spent all day together! They took me to lunch, they showed me around their school, introduced me to their friends, and taught me about their family and their lives in China.</p>
<p>My new friends had endless questions for me, and they literally wanted to know every aspect of my life back in America. Before embarking on this incredible adventure, I knew the Chinese did not have the same freedoms as American’s do.  But, I guess I didn’t realize it was so severe and that their government even puts limitations on what they study in school. For example, when the Chinese students get to a certain age, they take a test and depending on what they score determines what college they will attend and what programs they will study. This situation leaves many students unhappy with their career path, but they can’t do anything to change it. I cannot imagine not being able to change my major in college if wanted to.</p>
<p>I learned so much from my Chinese friends that summer.  But perhaps the most important challenge was effectively communicating with my Chinese peers. I quickly learned that by me just talking, that wasn’t going to get me anywhere.  So, I had the idea to bring pictures along. I showed them pictures of my friends and family, where I lived, and what I liked to do! They just loved that. By communicating with them in a visual way, they were able to connect with me without me using very many words. The next day, they brought pictures of their friends and families and I was able to better learn about them and their lives. I never thought that about the power of images and that through pictures we could connect on a whole new level.  From then on, our friendship really grew.</p>
<p>I think the lessons I learned about how to effectively communicate with my Chinese friends is something I now use in my everyday life. I learned that every person communicates differently with one another, and there are ways to effectively communicate with different types of people.</p>
<p>First, we all have to recognize that not everyone is just like you.</p>
<p>Second, I think that patience is key. Be slow to speak, but quick to listen and really try to hear the words that are not being said. What is the meaning behind the conversation and how are they feeling?</p>
<p>Third, be respectful. Everyone has different thoughts and ideas, and it’s important to realize that and respect them as a person.</p>
<p>This is what I love about Catch Your Limit! My internship is teaching me that communication skills that I learned all the way in China are effective in many situations.  Catch Your Limit’s consultants value effective communication and teach people how to be better communicators.  And, most of all, I’m learning the importance of asking good questions and listening.</p>

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		<title>A Special Hideaway</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jul 2011 16:38:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leighton</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tucked away on a narrow street in the Historic Shockoe Slip of Richmond, VA., lies a refreshing place to clear your mind and get away. It’s warm, friendly, and always there. It gives you advice, counsel, insight, and adventure. This special hideaway is brilliant and knows everything about love and romance, thrill and adventure, business [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tucked away on a narrow street in the Historic Shockoe Slip of Richmond, VA., lies a refreshing place to clear your mind and get away.</p>
<p>It’s warm, friendly, and always there. It gives you advice, counsel, insight, and adventure. This special hideaway is brilliant and knows everything about love and romance, thrill and adventure, business and politics, and it wants you to learn more about what it has to offer.</p>
<p>It always open during the day, it’s always friendly, welcoming, and warm. It’s the most popular, because it has so many friends, of all different ages. I have never encountered anything so smart and simple all at once.</p>
<p>If at any point in time you find yourself wondering the beautiful cobblestone streets of downtown, Richmond, VA., stop in and meet the counselor, the adventurer, the therapist, the comic relief, the friend. What is the name of this person, place, or thing that has been so intimately described? The name is the Fountain Bookstore.</p>
<p>From the moment I walked into The Fountain Bookstore, I immediately felt something different. This bookstore is unlike any other bookstore I have been in. It is small, warm, and quaint and there is a peaceful serenity that surrounds you from the moment you walk in with its “old timey” feel.</p>
<p>Kelly Justice is the owner of The Fountain Bookstore and I had the chance to meet with her just the other day!</p>
<p>Upon meeting Kelly, I could really grasp that she loves books! She reads about 2 or 3 a week, and really loves to talk about books!</p>
<p>She has been with The Fountain Bookstore since 2000 where she started as the general manager &amp; events coordinator.</p>
<p>One thing I really admire about Kelly is her persistence through change. Which is one of the values we teach our clients here at Catch Your Limit. Over the years not only has our society changed but so has our technology.  Amazon.com put a beating on independent bookstores, especially The Fountain.</p>
<p>When asked about how she and The Fountain were able to cope with change and the competition of the online world Kelly said, “We had to get our online game better.” Their website <a href="http://www.fountainbookstore.com">www.fountainbookstore.com</a> enables you to purchase books online and read about some of the new books they have in store! Her creativity came into play by coming up with creative ideas unique to her, her store, and Richmond; basically things that the Internet cannot offer. For example she started occasional book clubs, nightly book clubs, and author signings. The writer of True Blood even did her first book signing at The Fountain before she signed with HBO! How cool is that!</p>
<p>One thing I really loved about meeting Kelly is her attentiveness to her customers. There was a young man in the store who was looking for a new and exciting read. When he was describing what he likes, Kelly selected about 5 books to meet his criteria. Upon choosing those 5 books, she described each one of them beautifully and she personally had read them all. When the young man began looking through the books Kelly had recommended she told him, “If none of those work for you we will start our search over!” To me, that is something the Internet cannot offer, a personal, quality, relationship between the customer and the staff, trying to get the right book to the right person, at the right time, and that is exactly what Kelly, and The Fountain Bookstore do; they help people get exactly what they want when they want it.</p>
<p>The next time you need encouragement, inspiration, adventure, or advice stop by The Fountain Bookstore and visit Kelly and explore all the endless possibilities they have to offer you. I did, and I loved my experience there!</p>

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		<title>A Rescuing Hug</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jul 2011 21:15:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leighton</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As I was clicking around on the Internet I came across an article that was so inspiring to me, I couldn’t help but share it. It’s an article written by Nancy Sheehan about two premature twin sisters. “Two twin sisters were born October 17, 1995. They were born 12 weeks ahead of their scheduled due [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As I was clicking around on the Internet I came across an article that was so inspiring to me, I couldn’t help but share it. It’s an article written by Nancy Sheehan about two premature twin sisters.</p>
<p>“Two twin sisters were born October 17, 1995. They were born 12 weeks ahead of their scheduled due date,” replied Sheehan.  At that time, standard hospital procedure was to place preemie twins in separate incubators to reduce the risk of infection in hopes to save their lives.</p>
<p>“Kyrie, the larger sister quickly began gaining weight and sleeping calmly, however Brielle couldn’t keep up with her. She struggled with breathing and was experiencing bad heart rate problems. She wasn’t gaining weight, and the oxygen level in her blood was so low she was likely to not make it,” wrote Sheehan.</p>
<p>Brielle soon went into critical condition. She began gasping for breath, her skin turned bluish-gray. She got the hiccups, a dangerous sign that her sweet little body was under a lot of stress.</p>
<p>Nurse, Gayle Kasparian was running out of options of how to save Brielle, so she went against the odds and did something that was unheard of at that time period.</p>
<p>Kasparian, place the stronger twin in the same incubator as Brielle. As soon as Brielle felt her sister beside her she called down, and within minutes her blood oxygen readings were the best they had ever been. As Brielle began to calmly fall asleep Kyrie wrapped her tiny little arm around her sibling, which helped stabilize her as she slept.</p>
<p><a href="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/images1.jpeg"><img class="aligncenter size-thumbnail wp-image-3600" src="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/images1-129x150.jpg" alt="" width="129" height="150" /></a></p>
<p>As emotional as this story is, I couldn’t help but think of how it applies to our everyday lives personally and professionally.</p>
<p>Personally, I can think of so many times when I have just felt completely suffocated by the weight of the world. There have been countless times when I have experienced my own “hiccups” symbolizing myself undergoing a lot of stress just trying to survive. Similar to Brielle, I crave the need of a “Rescuing Hug” at times. Whether it’s from friends, family, mentors, a verse, or inspirational quote. We all at times need to be rescued.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Here are some of the rescue hugs in my life:</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-3595" src="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/IMG_00912-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></p>
<p><a href="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/IMG_08311.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-3591" src="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/IMG_08311-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><a href="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/P8230011.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-3592" src="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/P8230011-300x224.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="224" /></a><a href="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/33571_1464876591171_1511190236_31473845_8350970_n.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-3593" src="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/33571_1464876591171_1511190236_31473845_8350970_n-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/275182_1011420893_5766118_n.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-thumbnail wp-image-3601" src="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/275182_1011420893_5766118_n-150x135.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="135" /></a></p>
<p>Professionally, every company needs someone to give them a rescuing hug from time to time. This is what I love about Catch Your Limit! Everyone here at CYL is fun and inspirational. We are ready to give every company or client that walks through our door a rescuing hug. We understand, we love to listen and advise those in need.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><a href="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/cyl_crew_shirts-e1311281138531.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-3589" src="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/cyl_crew_shirts-e1311281138531-300x112.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="112" /></a></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><a href="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/swat_header-e1311281098146.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-3588" src="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/swat_header-e1311281098146-300x137.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="137" /></a></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><a href="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Catch_Your_Limit_Team-e1311281012222.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-3587" src="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Catch_Your_Limit_Team-e1311281012222-300x156.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="156" /></a> We at Catch Your Limit Consulting are passionate people.</p>
<p>We guide our clients in the pursuit to catch their limit.</p>
<p>The people we touch find joy in being challenged, stimulated and encouraged to feel a part of and challenged, stimulated and encouraged to feel a part of and accountable for their mutual success.</p>
<p>Catch Your  Limit is about people paying attention to people&#8230; about the power of good ideas that passionate, motivated, fully energized people can generate.</p>
<p>We strive to create working environments where you can discover and develop y our capabilities and potentials, support each other every step of the way, celebrate your successes, learn from your failures and never forget how to play.</p>
<p>The only thing off limits at Catch Your Limit is making excuses.</p>
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		<title>Warning: Don&#8217;t Trust, &#8220;It&#8217;s Simple!&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jul 2011 11:57:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Laughon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently, I was seeking counsel with an &#8220;expert&#8221; in her field. My problem was only getting worse and was affecting me enough to know I needed help in a big way. At our first session together, right after we shook hands (and discussed remuneration), she looked deep into my eyes and said, &#8220;My take is your challenge, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Recently, I was seeking counsel with an &#8220;expert&#8221; in her field. My problem was only getting worse and was affecting me enough to know I needed help in a big way.</p>
<p>At our first session together, right after we shook hands (and discussed remuneration), she looked deep into my eyes and said, <strong>&#8220;My take is your challenge, no matter what it is, is simple. And, my job is to help you see that and find</strong> <strong>answers.&#8221;</strong></p>
<div id="attachment_3554" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/finger_snap1.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-3554  " title="finger_snap" src="http://blog.catchyourlimit.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/finger_snap1-300x280.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="280" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">It&#39;s a snap, sir!</p></div>
<p>My first reaction was to grab my money and run!</p>
<p>My second was to look for a hidden camera and see if I was being &#8221;Punk&#8217;d&#8221;. I was almost sure that it had gone off the air, but this was bizarre enough to make me wonder.</p>
<p>And my third, was to just sit there, not trusting, but interested in learning how this person came to believe her answer was, well, <strong><em>the</em> answer</strong>.</p>
<p>Wow, I thought, maybe I have finely discovered <em>the</em> person who will hand me the meaning of life, one word on an index card &#8230; SIMPLE!</p>
<p>Why was I having such a hard time with SIMPLE? Why did my challenge(s) seem pretty damn, well, challenging?</p>
<p>How could she know the answer was simple before even knowing the situation, background or what the challenge might be in the first place.</p>
<p>My feelings were &#8220;simply&#8221; discounted. They were put in a slot called &#8221;quick fix&#8221; or &#8220;I get this all the time and I can handle it with my back turned to you&#8221; point of view.</p>
<p>Why did I feel like I was going to get a fortune cookie answer and yet have to pay a fortune for it.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m was certain I was just another number on another busy day of numbers who were just like me. I could almost hear her scream, &#8220;Another challenge solved! Next!&#8221;</p>
<p>I assume she was posturing her competency and expertise. However, as a result of her opening statement, I felt her fee was inflated. If it was so simple, why was I paying so much?</p>
<p>Then, it hit me.</p>
<p>And I felt uneasy when I thought about just how easy it is was to do exactly what the &#8220;expert&#8221; had done to me. How many times, for whatever reasons, do we not invest the time in listening, probing and being empathetic that we, as leaders, know we should. We all do it, and probably more often than we are aware of.</p>
<p>How many times do we have answers before we even listen? How many times do we start with &#8220;that&#8217;s easy&#8221; or &#8220;no problem&#8221; or &#8220;everybody knows what to do about that&#8221;? Where&#8217;s the understanding? The empathy? The head nod of an acknowledgement that this could at least be difficult for the other person?</p>
<p>Most importantly, who are we to discount or even question another person&#8217;s challenges, feelings or pain?</p>
<p>Someone has put there trust in you to confide in you in the first place. There is nothing simple about earning and sustaining trust.</p>
<p>And, there is nothing more difficult than regaining it once it is broken.</p>
<p>Use your ears. Use your heart. What may be easy or simple for someone else, including you, may be the hardest thing in the world for the one(s) confiding in you.</p>
<p>Think about it. Practice. Share your thoughts.</p>
<blockquote><p><em>PS &#8211; I simply did not, nor will I go back to this &#8220;expert&#8221; again. </em></p></blockquote>
<p><b>><(("> Tom Laughon</b><br>
<em>Tom is affectionately known as BIG ><(("> at Catch Your Limit</em></p>
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